# 👯 Live with friends, not just roommates

People you'd choose to live with, not just tolerate. It only happens once.

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## How you would actually start

- Check whether the promise holds

“People you'd choose to live with, not just tolerate. It only happens once.” That is the pitch. Spend an hour on first-hand accounts rather than listicles — what it costs, how long it really takes, and what people wish they had known.

- Decide what "started" would look like

No deadline is real here. The list is a prompt, not a schedule. Name the smallest thing that would count as having begun, and do that one.

- Find the small version first

There is almost always a one-afternoon version. Do that before committing money or telling anyone.

- Put it somewhere you will see it

An intention you have not written down is a mood. A list you revisit is a decision you keep making.

## If this appeals, so might these

- [❤️ Reconnect with someone you've lost touch with](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/reconnect-with-someone-you-ve-lost-touch-with)

- [❤️ Volunteer abroad for at least a month](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/volunteer-abroad-for-at-least-a-month)

- [❤️ Host a dinner party for 20+ people](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/host-a-dinner-party-for-20-people)

- [❤️ Make a close friend in another country](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/make-a-close-friend-in-another-country)

- [❤️ Mentor someone just starting out in your field](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/mentor-someone-just-starting-out-in-your-field)

- [❤️ Attend a world-class sporting event live](https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/attend-a-world-class-sporting-event-live)

> Source: https://significanthobbies.com/experiences/live-with-friends-not-just-roommates